
Beyond the ordinary
orksheet 1 — Who Am I Right Now?
๐ฟ Worksheet 1 — Who Am I Right Now?
Purpose: Build awareness of your current identity, patterns, and inner voice.
1. SelfโCheck-In
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How do I feel most days?
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What thoughts repeat in my mind?
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What do I avoid, and why?
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What do I crave more of?
2. Identity Snapshot
Complete the sentences:
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I am someone who…
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People often describe me as…
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I show up best when…
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I struggle most when…
3. Reflection
What part of this feels most true? What part feels uncomfortable? What part feels like it’s ready to change?
Worksheet 2 — Values & Inner Compass
๐ฟ Worksheet 2 — Values & Inner Compass
Purpose: Identify what truly matters to you.
1. Circle Your Core Values
Love • Honesty • Peace • Growth • Freedom • Stability • Creativity • Connection • Respect • Joy • Purpose • Compassion
2. Journal Prompts
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Which three values guide my decisions?
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Which values do I ignore or abandon when life gets hard?
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Which value do I want to strengthen?
3. Reflection
Where in my life am I living out of alignment with my values?
Worksheet 3 — Strengths, Gifts & Hidden Abilities
๐ฟ Worksheet 3 — Strengths, Gifts & Hidden Abilities
Purpose: Recognize what makes you unique.
1. My Strengths
List 5 things you’re naturally good at — big or small.
2. My Gifts
What do people come to you for? What feels effortless for you but helpful to others?
3. Hidden Abilities
What have you been afraid to admit you’re good at? What talent have you pushed down?
Worksheet 4 — Your Story: Past, Patterns & Lessons
๐ฟ Worksheet 4 — Your Story: Past, Patterns & Lessons
Purpose: Understand how your past shaped you without letting it define you.
1. Past Influences
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What experiences shaped who I am?
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What beliefs did I inherit that no longer fit?
2. Patterns
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What cycles do I repeat?
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What triggers me the most?
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What do I run from?
3. Lessons
What has life been trying to teach me?
Worksheet 5 — The Real You vs. The Conditioned You
๐ฟ Worksheet 5 — The Real You vs. The Conditioned You
Purpose: Separate your true self from the version shaped by others.
1. The Conditioned Self
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What did I learn I “should” be?
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What parts of me were judged or silenced?
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What roles did I take on to survive?
2. The Real Self
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What feels natural, peaceful, or energizing?
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What parts of me feel like home?
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What do I want to reclaim?
Worksheet 6 — Vision: Who Am I Becoming?
๐ฟ Worksheet 6 — Vision: Who Am I Becoming?
Purpose: Step into your next version.
1. Future Self Snapshot
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How do I want to feel daily?
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How do I speak to myself?
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How do I show up in relationships?
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What habits support the person I’m becoming?
2. Identity Statement
Write a new identity sentence: “I am becoming someone who…”
3. Action Step
What is one small shift I can make this week?
Worksheet 7 — Needs, Boundaries & Personal Space
๐ฟ Worksheet 7 — Needs, Boundaries & Personal Space
Purpose: Understand what you need to feel safe, supported, and whole.
1. My Needs
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I feel most supported when…
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I feel grounded when…
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A need I’ve been ignoring is…
2. My Boundaries
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I feel drained when…
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A boundary I need to set is…
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A boundary I need to enforce is…
3. Reflection
Where in my life do I abandon myself to keep the peace?
Worksheet 8 — Identity in Relationships
๐ฟ Worksheet 8 — Identity in Relationships
Purpose: Explore how you show up with others and what that reveals about you.
1. Relationship Patterns
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I feel most myself around…
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I shrink or dim around…
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I tend to play the role of…
2. Authentic Expression
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I want to show up as someone who…
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I feel safest expressing myself when…
3. Reflection
What relationships support my growth, and which ones limit it?
Worksheet 9 : Passions, Interests
๐ฟ Worksheet 9 — Passions, Interests & What Lights You Up
Purpose: Reconnect with joy, curiosity, and the parts of you that feel alive.
1. Joy & Energy
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I lose track of time when…
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I feel alive when…
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Something I want to explore again is…
2. Curiosity
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Something I’ve always wanted to try is…
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Something I stopped doing but miss is…
3. Reflection
What does this reveal about who I truly am?
Worksheet 10 — Who Am I Becoming?
๐ฟ Worksheet 10 — Who Am I Becoming?
Purpose: Step into your next version with clarity and intention.
1. Future Self Snapshot
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The future me feels…
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The future me believes…
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The future me no longer tolerates…
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The future me practices…
2. Identity Statement
Write your new identity sentence: “I am becoming someone who…”
3. Action Step
What is one small shift I can make this week to support this version of me?